Usually, guys don’t see premature ejaculation as a way to improve their lives.  While the common condition often frustrates men, the fact is that it can be used as a form of motivation when it comes to improving a man’s life.  Sound crazy?  Check out these five ways premature ejaculation could actually make things better in the long run.

You’re More Invested in Your Own Health – Men may have a reputation for a hands-off approach to health in general, but that doesn’t hold when it comes to sex.  When something goes wrong in the bedroom, men take action.  This encourages a more hands-n approach to health both in their personal life and in how they relate and speak to their doctor or medical team.  Getting involved in your health on a professional level means speaking to your doctor about your performance and feelings in and out of the bedroom.  This can help resolve any sexual performance issues as well as addressing underlying health concerns, ensuring a focus on Whole Body Health.

Improves Communication with Your Partner – Premature ejaculation isn’t exactly something you can hide.  When men speak openly and honestly to their partners about premature ejaculation not only are they able to try more treatments, they are also able to build a stronger relationship.  Opening up to your partner about the issue allows you to try treatment options that require the participation of both partners.  From changing sex positions and using numbing agents to mutual masturbation and edge play, sexual therapy can be very effective for many men who have dealt with early ejaculation on a chronic basis.  But it hinges on having a partner who understands what’s going on.  Communicating with your wife or girlfriend about this sensitive issue strengthens your emotional bond, improving your relationship as a whole and taking your intimacy to a whole new level.

Encourages Healthier Habits – While there are a number of different reasons why a man may experience premature ejaculation, physical health is often at the core of the problem.  Nutrition and physical fitness have a huge impact on a man’s sexual performance and a bout of early ejaculation or erectile dysfunction is often a big motivating factor for men who decide to cut the junk food out of their diets and begin to improve their general physical fitness levels.

Prompts Creativity – One of the most popular methods for dealing with early ejaculation is to switch up your tried and true sexual positions. Trying new positions, such as Doggy Style, which don’t overstimulate the penis can help improve stamina.  Simply changing positions often and engaging in different forms of sex play can also lessen the effects of early ejaculation.  Best of all, the creativity you start to show in the bedroom is bound to impress your partner.  Women love creativity and a change of pace – show her you know what it takes to keep things fun and interesting between the sheets.

Reminds You of Your Own Strength – Simply put, dealing with early ejaculation isn’t easy.  It requires men who can be focused on the goals they set for themselves as well as the work it requires.  At first the job can seem overwhelming and men can be discouraged.  But those who buckle down and put in the work often find the results they experience have a way of snowballing – once you see improvement it becomes easier to build on that success and reminds you just how resilient you truly are.

Dealing with any form of sexual dysfunction often requires work to be done on a personal level – from finding new ways to deal with stress to adopting healthier eating and exercise habits.  While it’s not a condition any guy would wish onto someone else, approached in the right way early ejaculation can actually become a positive turning point in your life.