When people think about sexual performance problems, they tend to think it only affects the time they spend between the sheets or their intimate relationship. The truth is that some problems have a far reach when it comes to adverse effects. In the case of early ejaculation, the problems it creates can impact a man’s relationships, work and even his physical health.
Problems In and Out of the Bedroom
When early ejaculation initially happens, most men are able to shrug it off since it’s simply so common and can happen for any number of reasons. In fact, most experts agree that premature ejaculation happens to nearly every man at one point or another. It can be cause by anything from a poor diet to troubles at work and so is something every man has had to deal with once or twice. When it becomes a chronic issue, however, the problems begin to extend far beyond the bedroom.
It’s no secret that everyone – both men and women – tend to connect at least part of their self-esteem to their performance in the bedroom. While self-esteem is affected by many different things, sexual performance and the ability to please a sexual partner can have a huge impact on how people see themselves. As a result, chronic performance problems can easily begin to wear away at a man’s feelings of self-worth and even his overall confidence. In many cases, men coping with chronic early ejaculation find they become more withdrawn around others and anxious about problems that never bothered them before. This increase in anxiety and a withdrawal from social situations or other relationships compounds the stress a man feels which then feeds right back into the cycle of performance problems.
Immediate Treatment While Finding the Cure
Treatment for most sexual performance problems vary widely as the causes can be so diverse. In many cases, treatments focus only on resolving the problem at hand. In the case of premature ejaculation there are numbing agents, restriction devices and other products which can help to forcefully delay ejaculation. These remedies deal with the immediate problem and are widely popular as they do work. The problem with this approach, however, is that while the problem is temporarily remedied, it isn’t really solved. In order to deal with this type of problem once and for all, men have to dig deep, find the root cause and deal with it head on.
Dealing with the underlying issue causing sexual performance problems is no easy task. In order to help men get out from under the overwhelming feelings that come along with this type of problem, many experts recommend they combine products that treat early ejaculation while using other therapies to find and ultimately deal with the underlying issue or problems as well. This gives men a bit of breathing room and takes some of the pressure, stress and anxiety off their shoulders.
There is a wide variety of treatment options men can explore to help resolve their premature ejaculation issues once and for all. Depending on what the underlying cause is, they may engage in sex or masturbation therapy, mental counselling, a physical fitness routine or a combination of these and other therapies. Simply put, there is no one pat answer that works for ever many because every man is different.
Treating premature ejaculation effectively means both dealing with the immediate issue as well as finding out what is causing the chronic recurrence. This is best achieved by men taking an active role in their own health care along with the support and advice of their general practitioner, nutritionist or other healthcare professional. Working together, men can not only get their sex life back on track, they can ensure it stays there.